With patients, meet them where they are

As the saying from my previous article goes: “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”

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Dr. Nguyen

This quote was more evident in how I treat patients. More than a patient, I treat them as family members. I enjoy coming into work with a team that is happy and engaged and giving their best to show the patients how much we care. Even though I present treatment plans to the patient, I cannot do this without the support of the team. I am truly grateful for my team and how hard-working they are.

My eagerness to hop out of bed and drive an hour to my dental practice in hopes of making someone’s day and making them feel better about their health, function, esthetics, self-esteem, and confidence is my motivation to continue to do what I do: be a dentist. I define dentistry as being an artist, psychologist, friend, and engineer in one job. Yes, we wear many hats, even a singer, for the pediatric patients that visit my office.

When we treat our patients as family members, we continue to give them the best treatment possible. We also connect with them on a personal level where we know interesting facts such as how they have two children where one wants to be a dentist, or how excited they are to almost enter high school or even college pursuing a variety of careers.

These are engaging stories because these are stories that define who they are.

Who do you believe knows your patient best in a dental practice? If you answered, your dental hygienist, that is correct! We only spend a few minutes with them when we evaluate the dental findings, while performing a head/neck exam and obtain additional findings.

When walking into a room, it is key to take the time to get to know your patients. My goal in each patient’s room that I walk into is to connect and get to know the patient, while also providing a memorable patient experience for them.

I ask a few questions about them such as, “What are your plans after today?” and “What do you like to do for fun?” The questions change, but it is to get to know them for who they are and show that we, dentists are human, aside from the white coat and loupes that we wear.

I then gauge how they respond to these questions and tailor the rest of my responses to their answers.

I understand that some people do not enjoy being at a dental office, but for us to create a fun experience for them, is what makes my career fun. I enjoy doing what I love, while providing the dental care they need to improve and maintain their overall dental health.

When there is dental work to be completed, I sit down at the level of the patient and discuss the findings in words and analogies that they can understand. I am mindful to gauge to their reaction and behavior and watch their response, as to what I am saying and pause for questions that they may have. I then, answer all their questions and discuss how this would help them maintain their overall health.

What I learned from patient communication is to show them that you truly care by taking the time to get to know them and use easy-to-understand words and analogies that they can relate to. Doing this, I have gained the patient’s trust and have comforted the patient by knowing that you continue to “do no harm” and treat them like family.

Dr. Jessica Nguyen is a recent dental graduate from the University of Minnesota-School of Dentistry. Dr. Nguyen will be working as an associate general dentist in Forest Lake, Minnesota. She enjoys spending time with her family, singing, trying new foods with her friends, and playing sports. Dr. Nguyen connects with others by learning from their stories because she believes each person has a life lesson that one can learn from. She is passionate about volunteering and helping others by giving advice to pre-dental students, dental students, and sharing positive, uplifting, inspirational stories to guide others to become successful, achieve their dreams, and live life to the fullest. Any questions/comments and please reach her at: nguy1716@umn.edu.

5 comments

  • That’s really a wonderful idea. Sometimes, patients are not comfortable about sharing their health issues with the healthcare provider, giving them extra time will help them so that they can share issues easily. You are doing such great work. Thanks.
    Dental clinic Longmont CO

  • Glad to hear this is still the spirit among younger dentists. I was in practice in New Jersey in North Bergen mostly but also areas in Hudson, Bergen, Passaic areas for 45 years. I loved my profession and my patients. (Not so much the insurance companies) Too many times I saw patients treated like anMOD instead of a person. I am greeted wherever I go by patient who remember my kindness and caring. That feeling lingers longer than what ever happened in the chair. God Bless you!

  • Dr. Nguyen Is mature beyond her years. I am always so impressed with how beautiful her approach is to patients and staff.
    And I share her articles with my staff as I could not say it any better.
    Brian
    Brian Shuman DMD

  • Dental clinic Longmont CO: You made me smile reading your comments- thank you for the positive affirmation!

    Vincent Picone NYU Class of 75: God bless you also, thank you for sharing the stories of your continual kindness/compassion towards your patient- that is truly inspirational!

    Dr. Brian Shuman: Thank you for your never-ending support and kindness – I hope you had a motivational morning huddle with your team!

    And to the multiple dentists that contacted me via e-mail/text messages this past weekend:

    You all are the reason why I continue to write the articles that I do: inspire and instill the same passion/kindness/compassion that you all have years of experiencing! Thank you all for reading my article and taking the time to leave a happy note! Stay safe and healthy, everyone! ~Have a wonderful holidays!

  • I am in practice in Woodleigh Water Dental Surgery, Berwick. I love being a dentist. Happy reading this article please keep contributing

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